有荣誉的一个人或一个Groomslady？以下是如何全部用户

术语“伴娘”和“伴郎”肯定有性别协会并牢固地扎根于传统，但没有硬性规定说你已经得到了你的婚礼分成他和她。如果你宁愿混合起来，并有男伴娘或女性伴郎，我们说去了。无论您或您的BFFs如何识别，过道两侧有男人和女人是一种甜蜜的方式，包括你的朋友在你的大日子。

只要您和问题随之而来的是舒适与你有计划的活动，邀请他们的一切。Check in with them before you send out the invites to make sure they’ll feel good about attending (for example, your male best friend may not be as excited about your lingerie-themed bridal shower as you...), but extend an invitation to every event that you want them to attend.

虽然bridesmanmay not be eager to spend the morning watching you and your bridesmaids have your hair and makeup done, you should invite him to join you for all key moments: Include him in lunch with all of you in the bridal suite, and make sure he’s dressed and back when it’s time for you to show everyone your wedding dress. If your fiancé is having a groomswoman stand by his side, ask him (and her) if she’d be interested in getting ready with you and your bridesmaids, or if she’d rather hang out with the guys.

你有几个选择，当涉及到服装，但重要的是要确保他们看起来像他们这个团伙的一部分。你可以有一个正人君子穿同样的服装作为伴郎，或换出的附件（如领带或衬衫）以伴娘的其余部分更好地匹配。我们喜欢在类似伴娘礼服最好的女人的样子，但在较暗的色调，或者装扮，都是她自己的伴郎西服的颜色相匹配。使用鲜花，帮助协调每个人，还有，选择的是领带的每个部分颜色或品种婚礼派对一起。

一个bridesman应该走与伴娘过道，站在祭坛的新娘的身边，反之亦然为groomswoman。您可能，但是，想跳过具有护送伴郎伴娘，而是具备所有新郎的服务员走在过道，然后是所有新娘的服务员。你也可以交替各基团，具有伴郎，随后伴娘或bridesman，随后马夫，等等。